tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1492287841920237543.post8866137873740479933..comments2013-05-21T13:24:47.036-07:00Comments on Live For Today, Hope For Tomorrow: Calling All Coast Guard/Military Families!!EmPhilhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10944959911045309141noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1492287841920237543.post-89985188354218325242012-07-23T21:28:11.154-07:002012-07-23T21:28:11.154-07:00We've done two years so far and we've got ...We've done two years so far and we've got another year or so to go depending on if I stay in Cali to work for the Summer.EmPhilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10944959911045309141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1492287841920237543.post-60234814986680165122012-07-23T21:15:39.739-07:002012-07-23T21:15:39.739-07:00I feel ya on the impatient part!!! How long have y...I feel ya on the impatient part!!! How long have you two been apart? No matter the time it sucks!!Colbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12480699226063721031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1492287841920237543.post-27324707223767201252012-07-23T20:51:51.707-07:002012-07-23T20:51:51.707-07:00You'd be surprised what you're capable of!...You'd be surprised what you're capable of! The only way I can be with my guy is from a distance, then I'm happy to do it because the alternative is to not be with him at all. :) I do have my weak days though where I cry myself to sleep. lol! I'm not always strong! I'll be keeping you and your brother in my thoughts. <3 <3 <3EmPhilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10944959911045309141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1492287841920237543.post-86742985361419735842012-07-23T20:22:35.487-07:002012-07-23T20:22:35.487-07:00i love your blog. my little brother just began at ...i love your blog. my little brother just began at the navy academy, so i feel like i'm kind of connected. you are a lot better than i would be. i couldn't do it. gosh id die without my husband. i know you will make the right decision no matter what!<br /><br />KKirsten Wiemerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09704370831753344703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1492287841920237543.post-32509455077905772952012-07-22T23:23:12.527-07:002012-07-22T23:23:12.527-07:00Thanks lovely! I know you're right that we jus...Thanks lovely! I know you're right that we just need to wait a little longer till we are together. We are just starting to get impatient lol! <3EmPhilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10944959911045309141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1492287841920237543.post-11077717161909058932012-07-22T01:04:01.422-07:002012-07-22T01:04:01.422-07:00I feel the same way. I am a planner and it is hard...I feel the same way. I am a planner and it is hard to plan anything when the military is involved, but at the end of the day all that matters is me and my hubby! I think once you are together everything will feel alot better and you will make better decisions so i would wait it out and go from there. Good luck!!Colbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12480699226063721031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1492287841920237543.post-7208869139463047712012-07-19T22:38:47.115-07:002012-07-19T22:38:47.115-07:00Don't be sorry it was so long! This is exactly...Don't be sorry it was so long! This is exactly what I needed to hear. I'll let him know your feed back. Like both you and I said, it is hard to tell what we want till we are actually together and get to see what that is like. :)EmPhilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10944959911045309141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1492287841920237543.post-33741755375709479572012-07-19T18:56:55.199-07:002012-07-19T18:56:55.199-07:00Wow, can I relate! My husband and I are geo-bachel...Wow, can I relate! My husband and I are geo-bachelor. He is in FL and I am in TX. It's been the most miserable experience and unit we've ever had to endure. Within the first year at this unit he was determined to leave the CG after it, despite having 15 yrs in at that point. I support the idea. Now that we are nearing the end of living apart, he is o.k. with staying in longer, likely to 20. It's very common for a bad unit to make someone want to leave the service. It's also common that the decision results in regret and attempts to get back in, which isn't easy in this economy. Yes, the CG can say "no" if you ask to come back, even under good terms. Make sure it's what he REALLY wants. Give yourselves a chance to experience it while living under one roof. It makes a huge difference a lot of the time. And maybe even give it another unit. How long has he been in? If this is his first unit, then he definitely shouldn't base his decision on it. Hope that helps :) Sorry it was so long!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06844244923301263555noreply@blogger.com